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I am intentionally gentle, quiet, meek, and warm; not weak! I do not exercise power, control, or strength over my wife. I will not choose a woman, who is loud, quarrelsome, pugilistic, selfish, loves money, or controlling, instead of cooperating and advising, in the interest of the family. To me, marriage is not combat, contest, or competition. I never compete with anyone, execpt myselk, so that I can become better, than my former I do not seek a maid. I seek a moral, intellectrual, socially astute, and mature partner and companion. I can cook, make home, do domestic chores, and care for children. I do not need a wife, for these

I need a friend and a virtual sister, who will not do to me, anyth

My priorities are my wife and child/ren, our parents and siblings ( (including hers), and my profession, which must serve my families' needs or else, it will not be worth my engagement.

I devote much time to writing and studying, as well as gardening and cultivating colorful flowers, healthful vegetables and fruits, and chickens and aquarium fishes.

As for entertainment, I like Indian sitar, Chinese Guzheng, European classics, and Middle Eastern music. I dislike loud people, sounds, and places. I prefer historical and human interest movies, such as JFK, What has love got to do with it?, El CID, etc.

I choose to live in rural towns, rather than, big cities, because, they are quieter, less crowded and, land is cheaper, for gardening, running, and

About Life Partner Preferences:

She must be genuinely academic and intellectual, quiet, humble, and caring, NOT for just me but, for all humans, especially, her own self for, love begins with the self. I disdain selfish or materialistic persons.

My wife must have a mind of her own, and is not teleguided by her parents, siblings, or her husband, except, if, her husband is unkind or abusive.

I seek a professional, to whom, work is a means of self-expression and ability to affect society but, she ust not be a slave to work or the money it endows. Family must precede work.

My ideal partner is capable of good judgment, that looks beyond caste, skin-color, race, religion, and class.